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Judge Jeffrey Gillen approved court ordered molestation

In culture on June 10, 2015 at 04:52

In the case about whether a boy should be molested Judge Jeffrey Gillen took the side of the father who due to religious insanity wanted to molest his son by having him undergo circumcision. A procedure which cannot be reversed and will have effect on the life of this boy for the rest of his life.

I have nothing against what people want to do to their body once they are adults. If they want a tatoo, be circumcised, have nails put through their hands once a year, whip themselves etc. due to their religious belief in my mind they are free to pursue this.

But to force a child through religous procedures due to your own belief is so sick as it can be. I let it up to my children to decide if they wanted to be confirmed in church. I even let it up them to decide if they want to consume alcohol during this ceremony, which is against the normal tradition in Denmark.

I find it awful that the court allowed this to pass. The judge should have made the boy a ward of the state or ordered the parents to postpone the circumcision until they boy would come of legal age where he could decide for himself.

We are living in a sick world.

Mother sobs as she is ‘bullied’ into signing court agreement allowing her four-year-old son’s circumcision after spending week in jail for kidnapping him in bid to stop surgery (The Daily mail)

New youth parricide case in Denmark

In culture on October 10, 2014 at 05:33

A girl aged 15 has been arrested suspected of murdering her mother. Also arrested was her boyfriend aged 28.

It might be the first youth parricide case in Denmark.

In other countries there have also been such cases. In Canada the Robinson murder case took many headlines. In the United States the Steppin’ Stone Farm murder case and the Caffey case is well-known to the public.

In the Steppin’Stone Farm case a 15 year old girl learned of her mother’s plan to lock her up at the farm which was run by Christian Fundamentalists who didn’t even allow teenagers ordinary acts like drinking beers and partying. As result her boyfriend killed her mother acting at her orders according to the court. She served nearly 20 years in prison before being released this year.

In the Caffey case every male teenager in the seemed to know that the daughter planned to take her parents out. According to the court she managed aged only 15 to talk no less than 3 adults into murdering her entire family of two brothers and the parents. Why none of the teenagers knowing on her plan in advance did notify the authorities remains a mystery today. Their silence claimed 4 lives. Why 3 adults can be ordered around by a teenager girl is also a mystery. It is dangerous if grownup showing such a lack of mental strength can be living outside institutions.

In the Danish case not all facts are known yet. The girl can be innocent, so let us not judge her yet. It is a matter for the court.

However based on the learnings from the Steppin’Stone Farm case we have to know if the social services are involved. Did the girl fear ending up at one of the gruesome group homes in Jutland every youth in Denmark fear? A recent court case in Denmark about the group home Solhaven include allegations about violence, police bribe and lying in official papers. The owner earned millions while the teenagers were beaten up. If the teenagers went to the police, the police didn’t care because they were enjoying the many gifts the owners had given them.

There are many group homes like Solhaven out there which have not been closed yet. There are also foster parents working for the Social Services who have enforced themselves having sex with the children or having beaten them for decades without anyone acting on behalf of the children which the cases from Skaelskoer and Mern showed us.

So is this girl guilty? Was she acting out of fear for the social services? The court will find the truth.


Girl held in lockdown “Christian” boarding school

In culture on August 3, 2014 at 08:08

I saw this website which I quote below. What shocked me was that the employees at the school didn’t want to give the girl the medication doctors had ordered her to take. I am not a doctor, so I don’t go around and adjust medication among family members and co-workers. What kind of education gives the employees at this odd school the right to do this? Where are the child protection department Pace Florida in this case? Are they sitting on their butt while this poor girl have to suffer from an illness without medication?

Everyone has a story behind them. Everyone has a past and everyone makes mistakes. This is not about me, but I wanted to give you a little history of my past. There is so much more I could say but this is going to be long enough.

The focus and the reasoning beind the donation sight is for my youngest daughter. I have two daughters, Skyler, 14 & Haylee, 16. I divorced their due to his overly strict, very controlling nature and mental abuse. I left after 5 years and moved to what I call home, Las Vegas with my young daughters. With no job experience, no money and some family, it was a struggle from the beginning, Trying to find an office job during the day in customer service or administration became a huge struggle because I had no current experience. I was a stay at home mom when married. Eventually, I went to school to become a blackjack dealer. I got a job, but was placed on the night shift with one of casinos (9pm – 5am). I could give my daughters a good life. Before starting my job I had to find a trusting daycare where my daughters could be while I worked. After a few months I realized that this was going to be quite a challenge. What about sleep? What about time spent with my girls? I was always there 24/7 and had adapted to a great schedule when I was a stay at home mom. I tried with just a few hours of sleep at first, but the lack of hours caught up with me. My daughters eventually started suffering and behaving badly because of the drastic change. To hear them tell me, “Mommy, you don’t love us anymore? You never play with us and we never see you.” I heard those words more than once. I would breakdown every time. I believe any mother would. All three of us were suffering. I needed to do something, fast. I needed to get on my feet and eventually find a regular day job. I did not want them to suffer any longer. By then their father and I let go of the past, became friendly with eachother and only thought of our girls. He agreed to take care of them on a full time bases, so I could get on my feet and try to work myself into the day shift. Believe me when I say I thought long and hard about this. I made my decision out of love for my children, not for anything else. I care deeply and just wanted to do the right thing. Immediately, I was slammed with papers that their father was going to fight me for custody. It was ordered that their father would be primary custodial parent and I non-custodial parent. How could this have happened? They found that since I was a Blackjack dealer at night, I was unable to properly take care of two small children. It hit me very hard and if that is not stess on its own, it turned out the few people that were in my life made it a point time and time again to tell me what a dissapointment I was. That I made my decision because I was a horrible person, selfish and didn’t want the burden of two children on my hip. But, in my heart I knew it was out of love and at the time better for my daughter’s. My decision was hard enough and with the mental abuse it became harder and harder to deal with. I then began questioning my decision and started feeling guilty. Eventually, I was lost in a black hole.

Over the years their father has turned into an extreme religious fanatic, an Independent Fundamental Baptist with very strict rules including corporal punishment. Laying my daughters and his other children over an excercise ball and holding onto the counter as they are given ten licks with a homemade paddle for as little as telling little white lies or rolling their eyes. Child Protective Services were called in to investigate. Their father flat out admitted to this type of punishment for the children because they are a devout religious family and have been told to follow what is in the Bible and God’s instructions. He admitted to investigators that his pastor and God has told him to punish his children this way. He doesn’t use his hands, because they are for praying and love. They closed the case due to his faith and lack of current evidence of bruses or marks. He did as he pleased and the court was not able to intervene even though the report said they were in “intermediate risk.” He even admitted punishing his 2 year old daugther with a ruler.

My oldest daughter, Haylee is happy and has gone through life with instruction from her father. She is keeping her head down and does what she needs to do to get her through the days until she goes to college. She is a beautiful and very smart girl. Her love for me is unconditional as mine is for her. I do wish she would see what I and everyone else sees, but she tells me that I have no say.

Now to the real issue of my fundraiser….My daughter Skyler is a free spirit. She’s a bit rebellious, does not like to be controlled or told what to do. She has a heart of gold, is caring and loving. There is not a mean bone in her body. Skyler has not been treated fairly at her father’s house and is now taking it very hard. She has been home schooled for years, has no freedom, voice and parents all 3 of the younger children under the age of 5. She has to clean the house like if she were in military school. She hides in her room, has no relationship with anyone in the household and is terrified of her father. When they are ALLOWED to visit (only on his terms, NOT the court ordered terms). Before they visit, their father drills them about what can be said and what they can & cannot do. Then on return drills them again. Again, this is something that has greatly affected Skyler. Skyler was afraid to talk to even me about her problems at home and I have always urged her to. To make matters even worse, for years their father has said nothing but horrible things about me, has bad mouthed me and has gone so far to tell them my past, mistakes I made and why he believes I am just a stranger. He has told his family & my daughters since they were very very young, making me sound like a monster, a sinner and an unfit mother. I on the other hand have been nothing but respectful by not telling my daughters of their fathers past. What a big no no in the eyes of the law. He has turned out to be the unfit father by his actions. This is called Parental Alienation in a very extreme way.

All of this manifested into severe depression for Skyler. Her father controlled every aspect of her life. It was recently brought to my attention that she has attempted suicide 3x, to which he has failed to mentioned to me. He emailed 9 days later after he admitted her into a hospital for treatment. 9 DAYS!!! He still has not provided me all the details of her stay, doctors she saw, medication she was prescribed, etc. Afterwards, he checked her in and out of 3 treatment centers. Just as she was getting comfortable with her therapist, he would yank her out and she would have to start all over again. During her stay at the last treatment center I had been speaking with my daughter up to 3x a day where she would express that she wanted a fresh start and to live with me, my husband and step-son. She wanted to go to a normal school and be a normal child. I repeated daily that I will do anything I can to get her away from there and home with me. I repeated each time I spoke to her to stay strong, to think about her future and know that mommy would never turn her back. She believed me, trusted me and was truly happy and excited. It ALL came to a standstill when her father showed up, checked her out and told the therapist he was taking her home. But that was not true at all. Her therapist was extremely disturbed to find out where he had taken her.

Her father forcefully & secretly gave Skyler up to an Independent Fundamental Baptist facility that is extremely religious. There are many of these facilities & homes across the United States that have been investigated for various types of abuse (articles have been attached). It’s called Marvelous Grace Girls Academy in Pace, Florida. If you know the name of Bill McNamera, you have heard that he has been investigated and accused for physical abuse, sexual abuse, mistreatment and mental abuse to many children that are in his facilities. He is still a top leader for IFB facilities. This school was formerly called New Beginnings, which is now Marvelous Grace. This facility is NOT licensed with the state, or regulated. It is an Independent Fundamental Baptist girl’s facility that brainwashes young girls into thinking that the only reason they are there is because no one wants them anymore and God has only taken them in because he pity’s them. Skyler was stripped immediately of her medication for depression (they don’t believe in medication) and forced to detox all on her own. They teach these girls to clean, cook, sew and be submissive to their future husbands. They must memorize and recite verses in the Old Testament, which they are forced to stand on the street and yell at people claiming they are sinners and going to hell, plus much worse.

These young girls are demoralized and humiliated. Among other things, they are forced to stand in place for long periods of time, eventually urinating on themselves. They are not allowed to look anyone in the eyes. They are watched closely when using the restroom or taking a shower. No one, including parents can speak with them on the phone for 30 days, which for divorced parents is only 10 minutes a week. The call is put on speaker phone and monitored by individuals in the room. No family can see them for 4 months, which are limited & monitored too. I WAS NOT GIVEN THE CHANCE TO SPEAK WITH HER OR SEE HER BEFORE HE TOOK HER THERE AND HAVE NOW LOST ALL COMMUNICATION ALONG WITH MY COURT ORDERED VISITATION WITH HER OVER THE SUMMER FOR 5 WEEKS.

I have included links to their website, along with links to articles from reporters and investigators about sexual abuse, rape neglect, punishments for talking to others & mistreatment by other girls in the facility. You will see what happens in our country. I still am in shock that this is happening right under my feet.

Her father is contempt of court for violating many things ordered in our Parenting Plan. He freely does whatever he wants. He has told the magistrate flat out that he will never abide by the law and will do whatever he wants with his children. He is a deputy in his home town and is a youth teacher at his church (can you imagine). He believes that no one can stop him and is above the law. I have fought him for years and he always manages to squeeze by. I have done everything I know of and cannot do this fight on my own any longer. I have spent all my savings on attorney’s fees (I had an attorney who helped me at the beginning, but is not able the battle any longer), flying back and forth and having expenses that I never figured in. I need help desperately. I need to hire an attorney, a very good one who will fight hard and not give up. Attorneys are very pricey. Please for the sake of my daughter, help me free Skyler and get her away from the abusive conditions she has been enduring for far too long. Your help could save my child’s life, save her from years of depression, mental anguish and free her from this horrible nightmare she is currently living in.



A turtle was burned alive

In culture on August 1, 2014 at 06:38

A girl is accused of burning a turtle alive. It is a gruesome crime. It is animal abuse of the worst category. How do you end up with a teenager lacking of so much of her empathy toward other living creatures?

A little investigation showed that the girl was a former resident of the now closed Camp Tracey in Jacksonville, Florida.

Searching further brings stories of abuse and alleged sexual relationships between some counselors and residents. She was a little girl – 13 years of age – when she ended up at the camp. We can only wonder what they did to her but the result is now a girl who should be committed to a state hospital for the security of not only the animals but maybe also future neighbors and other innocent bystanders.

I remember seeing a documentary about the last days of a convicted murderer Michael Perry. I will not start to discuss whether he was guilty. It is something to be discussed because the arresting officer Monte Morast was involved in activities which sent him to prison nor the fact that Mr. Perry took a terrible beating while they obtained his confession. Finally a woman was involved who had close personal connection to the local sheriff and she got a kind of special protection from charges her actions would have brought forward against her if she hadn’t friends among the police.

Michael Perry’s life was defined by his stay at another teenage facility named Casa by the Sea. Casa by the Sea was closed by the authorities in Mexico.

The life of the accused girl was likewise defined as result of her stay at Camp Tracey. I hope that the courts for the security of the residents in Florida find that this girl would have it better in state hospital than a juvenile facility where she will be kicked to the streets after having served her sentence. Once back in the streets I am afraid that it would only be a question of time before her name pops up in relation to an even worse crime.

Poor turtle. It shouldn’t have been tortured just because we human beings are among those who treat our own children in such gruesome ways.


Week 9, xenophobia, prisoners abroad and social heritage

In Uncategorized on November 1, 2009 at 23:13

No news as it was the case last week due to the honeymoon.

But according to the blog The forgotten Danes another Dane fell victim to the relaxed laws in Florida as he was sentenced to 6 years in jail for a DUI-related killing. In Denmark the message is clear: Don’t drink and drive. Rather than waiting for people to be killed the sentence for DUI without person-related injury is properly the most strictest in the world. A full month pay based on reports from the IRS is the fine for a DUI-offender even when it is the first time. Second we had to lower the limit to 0.5 instead of the normal 0.8 when the Oresund bridge opened because even skin milk can make people from Sweden act drunk. We have an old saying: If you want to assist a person from Sweden in Elsinore, please carry him down to the ferry so he can go home and nurse his hangover.

But in Florida the fines are jokes. Only when you kill a person the hammer falls hard on you. The Dane got what equals a life sentence. At age 38 he will be too old to return to other than a life on welfare. He cannot rebuilt his life at such a high age, but that is the consequence of visiting a place where people are entrapped to commit a crime they would not have committed if they had remained in a civilized country.

I have read some of the stories published on The forgotten Danes. One thing seems to be common. The Danes are naive and they have been set up to easily. Just take the story about a Dane going down to solve a problem with a former employee being involved in a tax-case. Of course they forget that criminals are closely connected with the government in countries located in Africa.

Back to the DUI case in Florida. Did he get a trial or was he lured into a deal as a young Danish boy was in California some 10 years back. I found this case which is listed on a homepage over Danes who have been exposed of xenophobia. He got 8 years for just an ordinary high speed accident, when he tried to escape an attacking Mexican youth gang. He was deported after 4 years and when his mother protested this, she was set up in some kind of financial scheme.

A general good idea is to not visit Florida as a tourist and use your hard-earned taxdollars in a place which obivious is filled with people with an intense hate against Danes.

The last thing which shocked me was that experts are prepared to introduce payment for attending universities. Just weeks ago the fact that people can attend universities for free, was one of the good things noticed by Oprah in her show about Denmark.

I understand why they properly will go for that. The social heritage should be accepted. In most cases students attending universities are children from families who have some academically experience themselves. Children with a heritage coming from the working class are seldom seen attending higher education unless they are from other Nordic countries where an international agreement secures them possibility to study in Denmark on a kind of free pass so they don’t have to present good grades. Today Denmark is in fact paying for the education of the staff to the health care industry in all Nordic countries.

During the last 10 years families have entered Denmark and let their children choose education at a higher level where we as Danes were expecting that they should enter. It has resulted in social unrest and students can get rewards if they report a fellow student who have copied some of the books but it is noenough. This aread calls for some kind of intervention so we can maintain a secure social structure.

I hope that week 10 can be a little more positive.

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